All kids need encouragement. They need to know that they are important, loved, and valued – even when they make mistakes. Slowly but surely, the words we say become their inner voice. Sometimes, the most simple phrase can have a powerful impact.

1. I love you!
2. You are special.
3. I’m glad you are in our family!
4. You worked hard on that!
5. You made a wise choice!
6. You are a helpful brother/sister/friend.
7. I love spending time with you.
8. I know you can do it!
9. You are a great listener.
10. Thank you for your help.
11. I love hearing about your day.
12. Your feelings are important to me.
13. Your words/actions will never change my love for you.

Source: The Realistic Mama